Every time I dock, I'm thinking, "NASA would never approve this". Literally, every time I think this.
I'm sure NASA has seen all sorts of ideas about space flight, but if there's one thing they (and SpaceX) are about is keeping their lifeboats safe (well, in one piece if they don't cut corners for deadlines). The whole blow up your ship if you land in Y bay instead of Z bay is terrific for MMOs (I would l-o-v-e this everytime a bozo gets on his tundra mount right by a mailbox in WoW), but I got ED to resemble more commercial space flight (ED is a commercial venture by capitalists after all -- I think Borison and his space venture here, not EvE 2). I realize the Buck Rogers thing is what sells the game, yet ED misrepresents so much, so so much about space flight, even how it's done and it's sentiment. You know even Borison wouldn't allow his fleet of tourist boats to be blown up by "station security", as well as NASA not landing without a checklist so long it'll make Supercruise = Hyperspace. ^-^
I'm all for realism if the realism even fits the sentiments in reality.
Billion dollar ships are babied. They have to be as money doesn't grow on trees (FD understands this as well). Real flight is check lists upon check lists as any error to something so costly in not only detrimental to the budget, it's personnel. Astronauts, even in this Cyberpunk style game, are not cheap and they are NOT expendable. They can't be rezzed back once gone.
Even in a Wal-Mart style faceless generic space sim game, there has to be some basis in reality to operate on.
Docking in ED is not that reality (even if all the destruction stuff is taken out), flying into a dock is Buck Rogers stuff, Wal-Mart etc would not approve of the damage it could cause as 90% of all flight disasters are due to pilot error. Ships would be tractor beamed in with a pilot in the seat for emergencies (just like in flying the big jets).
So even in a game where you're nobody, the signals got crossed and there's too much emphasis on you are indeed so special you have to fly a billion dollar ship and free to destroy it on the company's time and dime. People are fired for much much less!