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The the ex showed up tonight to visit the dogs. Been weeks and weeks since I've seen her.

I thought I was over it, but apparently I'm not, because I got those awful warm and fuzzies.

It's time to tell her to just take a hike.

I wouldn't write this, but I'm half-lit.

Fire away.
 

Vasco Sapien

Vasco Sapien
Sorry to hear that your relationship has broken up mate.
From what you have written above im am assuming that this wasnt long ago, so expecting to be over her so soon (depending on how long you where together)... is not likley.
Its best to not tempt fate if you are determined to stay apart for political reason. But emotions will always be a factor which you cannot control or predict. So i find its best to simply not take any action that has been fueled by an emotional concern. Sort through every decision you make looking for an emotional hook and remove it. This should stop you acting out of sentimentality or malice.

But im a complete disaster when it comes to women and relationships so you dont wanna take advice from me.
 
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Strangepork

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vindelanos said:
The the ex showed up tonight to visit the dogs.

I thought I was over it, but apparently I'm not, because I got those awful warm and fuzzies.

It's time to tell her to just take a hike.

I wouldn't write this, but I'm half-lit.

Fire away.
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Mate, No one comes just to visit dogs brother, people do visit to double check how they really feel, or maybe for an insulting, diminishing call of nature.

Stay strong man, don't collude.

Be honest about what you feel, if your ex can't put it back to you in words... at least the dogs love the one who feeds them.

Cut off access to you immediately, until you hear the right words, not from the dogs from her.

Dogs eat and bark, fetch sticks and really love you.

They don't talk so much...


I got a bit drunk too specially so I could find the right words for you.
 
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m0rl0ck

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Visit the dogs sounds a little fishy to me too.
I have found the best thing to be just avoid seeing or talking to them as much as possible till you heal a bit.
After that, i have found that sometimes you can be friends and sometimes not.
All one can really do is endure it, take care of yourself, and maybe change your phone number :)
Stay busy if you can, maybe put the pictures away if you havent already.
 

Chris Simon

Chris Simon
vindelanos said:
The the ex showed up tonight to visit the dogs. Been weeks and weeks since I've seen her.

I thought I was over it, but apparently I'm not, because I got those awful warm and fuzzies.

It's time to tell her to just take a hike.

I wouldn't write this, but I'm half-lit.

Fire away.
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Never ever.
You had good reasons to split up. Good reasons that you've thought about for a long time before sealing the deal.

Don't let chemistry cloud your judgement. It'll wear out and then you're screwed, again.
It's a bad idea to keep meeting the person you've broken up with. Our brains run on drugs. And the only way to get rid of one is to stop using it entirely.
 

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You guys are awesome.

I woke up this morning half-hung over. Rode my bike to work in 30 degree weather and all was well. Didn't even think about it.

But I checked this thread from my phone and appreciate the awesome kicks in the tail that you guys gave me.

Reminded me how much I missed you guys. Hope to see you all soon when this next chapter goes live.

john willi said:
I got a bit drunk too specially so I could find the right words for you.
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lol - thanks, John :)
 
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clivewil

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every time my exes want to connect with me, i imagine them scowling at me and spewing that i don't make enough money or forgot to take the rubbish out, or a similar joyous occasion. it's the best contraceptive i've found so far, 100% success rate. warm and fuzzies become icy and flat REAL quick.
 

Patrick_68000

Patrick_68000
There are people who get married and divorce several times with the same person.

But in general, they are stars of the show biz, wealthy and eccentric.
 

FrankMurphy

FrankMurphy
Never easy, I moved away after getting the old heave ho.

You never buy a used car twice mate.

Be prepared for more incursions. Stay strong.
 

ilo

ilo
Actually, I can't tell you about your feelings or what you might have or not have to do, but I can say: take care of yourself, because those dogs need you right now.
 

Speedcuffs

Speedcuffs
clivewil said:
every time my exes want to connect with me, i imagine them scowling at me and spewing that i don't make enough money or forgot to take the rubbish out, or a similar joyous occasion. it's the best contraceptive i've found so far, 100% success rate. warm and fuzzies become icy and flat REAL quick.
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Oh yes.
 

Zak Gordon

Zak Gordon
wrmiller said:
My wife and I divorced early in our marriage. Remarried about a year later.

This month is our 26th wedding anniversary. So far, so good. :)
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Congrats :) That's a good showing. I'm at 17 years currently and the love and affection just keeps growing. It could have ended very differently for me, but i decided to take the risk one more time and she's a keeper (and I for her). Love and solid relationships is like nothing else, a truth of the universe :D
 

Bob Lighthouse

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Bob Lighthouse
vindelanos said:
The the ex showed up tonight to visit the dogs. Been weeks and weeks since I've seen her.

I thought I was over it, but apparently I'm not, because I got those awful warm and fuzzies.

It's time to tell her to just take a hike.

I wouldn't write this, but I'm half-lit.

Fire away.
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Rebound hookups can be quite memorable!

Aloha from the middle of the Pacific!

PS, "The Dogs"?
Is that what you call the twig n berries?

:)

"WOOF WOOF!"
 
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