In the begining of the universe there was nothing but hydrogren
The big bang created subatomic particles of matter and antimatter in very nearly equal amounts. In fact, it's a bit of a mystery why it wasn't exactly equal matter and antimatter, but it's fortunate because if that were the case, it would have all annihilated itself.
What coalesces out of this soup of particles is mostly hydrogen (75%), some helium, and trace amounts of lithium. (
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hydrogen cant fuse on its own there was no stars and so no light.
I think I know what you're referring to. I've heard that there is something of a mystery about how the first stars formed, because a star cannot be made of hydrogen alone. Something heavier is required to be in the core.
This went on for a very long time, possibly like a billion years.
I'm googling it and the number I'm getting is between 100 million and 250 million years. (
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if you could view the universe from the outside it would look like a sphere of darkness.
The big bang created space too. I know that sounds strange, but there's no "outside" of the universe within the 3D space that we inhabit. Maybe there's a multiverse, but that's not exactly the same thing.
Here's an analogy: imagine the universe is only 2D. Think of a white board. You're a guy living on the surface of a white board. You can't see "out" of the whiteboard because the only directions that make sense to you are X and Y. There's no Z in your universe and though you can understand it mathematically (just like we can understand a 4th dimension mathematically) you can't interact with it.
So now, the 2D version of you that lives on this whiteboard is asking, "if I could go past the edge of the whiteboard, then I'd be outside it" - you're imagining going in either the X or the Y direction and you're imagining finding an edge and going past that, then looking back at the whiteboard. You are not imagining going in a Z direction, because your brain doesn't work that way.
But here's the deal, your whiteboard universe is actually curved through that Z dimension. You can't detect it, but it is. Your 2D universe is on the surface of a 3D sphere. As a result, your 2D universe is finite, but unbounded. There is no edge that you can reach by going in the directions you're able to go: X or Y. The "2D big bang" that created your 2D universe created both the matter in your universe and the surface of that 3D sphere. The "2D big bang" was not something that happened on an existing infinite whiteboard. It created the whiteboard.
Our 3D universe is similar. It is finite, but it's unbounded. You can't go outside it and look back, at least not without a 4th dimension, which you cannot access. The big bang didn't happen in the universe, it created the universe.