This will be brought to the attention of the Community team.
After that, I would think its a question of seeing if you are contacted by them.
Nice job Ian, I hope OP appreciates you doing this for him o7
OP - deepest condolences, and my sympathy at this time. As the guys have said, yes this has been done before, but perhaps more-so with the occasional star-port or outpost as opposed to star systems now, as most are named from star charts as alphanumeric-farts across the galaxy map! But don't take that as a precluding sentiment, as I hope that your story reaches them in kind heart as well as other forum members have done.
Good luck with this and I hope that as your grandmother now rests, she has imparted to you a strong spirit of success for life henceforth; I hope that is part of what helps you come through your grief and sadness, and lets you strive forth in your life, whilst recalling her treasured memory at times of need or regard.
Please let us know if FD do contact you [if you are allowed to], and I wish you all the best with this request, and for the future CMDR.
Best regards,
The Hat
