Yes, it's terrible that I've had to spend 7000 hours playing a game that I hate. Have you got a suggestion for a game that'll blow my mind?
I can try. Its a broad question and i really want to try so what genres do you like? For single player questing, the peak of the genre is witcher 3 and red dead redemption 2, basically the same experience with different themes, if you associate with video games its worth trying those as a generational thing.
For space, there's not much out there, or at least games that will last 7000 hours anyway. Id recommend x rebirth if you haven't played those games before. People only hate it because they have expectations, as a newcomer to the series its amazing. If you haven't already, find a 2 button joystick (or any joystick), go to gog, and play tie fighter. It helps if you're into star wars sure, but id still say that's the best space game still to this date as far as gameplay goes. And its hardcore.. really unforgiving. You're in a hailstorm of lasers in a ship with no shields for the bulk of the game. No mans sky is an academic exercise in what elite could be.. the game and the developers are simply better than frontier. I wouldn't recommend it though because of the queasy theme and you need to like mobile games for what they chose. Having said.. it is like elites mini me if you don't mind the setting or the survival. Who betters frontier at every single patch.
For mmo's.. swtor if you haven't ignore the cash shop until you know the game. There are many traps asking for money and most of it is not needed. ESO is good, really good, if you have the patience and open mindedness to get a feel for the combat. It feels more like a little trainset / minatures table than a believable world but the presentation there is above and beyond.
There's only 2 games i play in vr.. elite, and the other has vr in the title.. hmm.
If you like racing games, well they're all what they are really. I do like the recent formula 1 games, but i want to do well and you have to put in serious time to learn the tracks if you don't want to take it like a joke so they're sitting there waiting for elite to break.
Frontiers other games are okay as well. They all reek of frontier, good graphics and sound, skeleton gameplay, people much more passionate about them than they deserve because they are also in genres with zero competition. Hey the graphics and sound are genuinely good, and theres tools to play with.
Lastly, just in case you're so inclined, also a huge recommendation for American Truck Simulator (ETS is too old and i never bothered with promods.. guess it could be okay.. wait until they patch in the new audio tech before buying i say) and Farming Simulator 2019. You'll learn way more than you ever wanted to about commerical agriculture from fs and its also relaxing. The trick is to find the right mod map for you.
Elite is pretty good in its way, perspective is good too i like to think.