The personal, private reason why I love Elite: Dangerous

Yes, I love the game, but not only because it's a good game. There is also a very personal and private reason behind it.
You see, while I make friends quickly, I also seem to be quickly out of their mind. Can't really count how many friends simply vanished. I could usually prolong it by talking to them, but after a while being the one to initiate the contact is not easiest. I'm apparently the "out of sight, out of mind" kind of friend.
The exception to that rule is my friend Andy. While I have lost contact with him for several years, we recently reconnected, and partially it was an effort from his side (He created a Google+ account, with the main hopes of me finding him there.)
But what does that have to do with Elite: Dangerous? I met Andy the first time in 1980, in First Grade. It took a while before we became good friends, but in the end we did. We both had the same home computer in the mid 80's, the Amstrad CPC. And we both loved Elite. We switched to PCs about the same time, and we both loved the PC versions of Elite as well as the Frontier games. We shared our hobbies: Elite, Frontier, the Ultima RPGs, ElfQuest comics, etc.
I still kept in touch with him when I moved from Munich to Berlin. It was Andy who got me interested in this newfangled thing called internet. It was Andy who got me into CompuServe. That's where I met my wife, so I guess I have to blame him for that.
I still kept contact with Andy after I moved from Germany to the USA. At least for several years that is. I lost contact with him around the time my 2nd child (my son) was born in 2006.
When I saw the kickstarter for Elite: Dangerous one of my first thoughts was "I wonder if Andy knows about that."
As I said, I got back into contact with him him through Google+, and in his 3rd message he mentioned Elite: Dangerous and that when he heard about it he was thinking about me.

tl;dr: Elite: Dangerous is not only a great game, but it also reminds me my friend whom I know for almost 35 years now.
 
Yes, I love the game, but not only because it's a good game. There is also a very personal and private reason behind it.
You see, while I make friends quickly, I also seem to be quickly out of their mind. Can't really count how many friends simply vanished. I could usually prolong it by talking to them, but after a while being the one to initiate the contact is not easiest. I'm apparently the "out of sight, out of mind" kind of friend.
The exception to that rule is my friend Andy. While I have lost contact with him for several years, we recently reconnected, and partially it was an effort from his side (He created a Google+ account, with the main hopes of me finding him there.)
But what does that have to do with Elite: Dangerous? I met Andy the first time in 1980, in First Grade. It took a while before we became good friends, but in the end we did. We both had the same home computer in the mid 80's, the Amstrad CPC. And we both loved Elite. We switched to PCs about the same time, and we both loved the PC versions of Elite as well as the Frontier games. We shared our hobbies: Elite, Frontier, the Ultima RPGs, ElfQuest comics, etc.
I still kept in touch with him when I moved from Munich to Berlin. It was Andy who got me interested in this newfangled thing called internet. It was Andy who got me into CompuServe. That's where I met my wife, so I guess I have to blame him for that.
I still kept contact with Andy after I moved from Germany to the USA. At least for several years that is. I lost contact with him around the time my 2nd child (my son) was born in 2006.
When I saw the kickstarter for Elite: Dangerous one of my first thoughts was "I wonder if Andy knows about that."
As I said, I got back into contact with him him through Google+, and in his 3rd message he mentioned Elite: Dangerous and that when he heard about it he was thinking about me.

tl;dr: Elite: Dangerous is not only a great game, but it also reminds me my friend whom I know for almost 35 years now.


that's actually really cool. funny, pretty much all of my friends are like you mentioned lol, i guess people just generally dont like nerds. >.>
 
It really looks like that the Biggest Fans of ED also be in the age between 30- and above (max above sometimes) .... and maybe thats why we handle all so good in ED...;)
 
Great story.

Weirdly I had a similar recollection about an old friend of mine who's no longer with us, got through uni together playing F:E2 in shifts... Never forgave him for losing one of the big ships (forget which) fuel scooping from a sun at 4am after a party... Saw the words 'Lave' on the galactic map and it all came back!
 
reminds me of being 12 years old and having no real responsibilities or worries. A hell of a way to get some complete escape from everything aroud.
 
I will never forget this New Years Eve 1986 in Berlin... me and a Friend playing together, but on seperated C64, Elite the whole Night, and wish that we can connect this both C64....
 
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