And has anyone been attacked who didn't strike first? Or got in their personal space and refused to leave?
And no, I'm not necessarily a friend to the Thargoids. I prefer interactions that are beneficial to all; them and us. If they leave us alone and don't attack us first, I see no need to attack them. If one or more of them do attack us, then, for the attackers, all bets are off. But I won't paint them all with the same brush. They are individuals, just like we are. I don't distrust all humans because one attacks me.