I really have/had no issue with Verity at all. I even bought the Verity voice pack for Voice Attack. But, for some reason, I hope it isn't some sexist thing, I find Victor's voice less jarring than Verity. With Victor, I was getting the info I've come to expect, without the wincing I've had with Verity.
I expect I will go for consistency across my ships, but I really only fly one, adding the the others for specific tasks. I hope, and expect, more choices to come along. And, I think it is a very nice touch.