For maximum fun, turn flight assist off.
Seriously though, don't. It's fine for docking pads - even those on the planetside bases - but landing with FA-off on the regolith is really, really difficult.
When you come out of orbital cruise into glide mode, it's helpful to point your nose so it's over the base - you will go into glide at an altitude of 25km, and drop out at 5KM (I think). If you align it right, you can drop out of glide and immediately request docking and engage your docking computer.
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I enjoy it. It's a little barebones at the moment, but so was the game when it first came out. As the season progresses, it will get better still.