I know this is old but this is really funny to see on a Frontier forum given the drama ED:Odyssey brought after its release and the number of players that <wink>very nicely</wink> asked critics not to go too hard on it.
Its quite possible for one thing to be bad and another thing to be bad as well. They are not mutually exclusive.
Also, Odyssey got rightly roasted for the performance of Odyssey, performance that even now is not up to scratch, although it has somewhat improved.
And here's the real difference, FD couldn't hide behind the alpha label indefinitely. They had a short alpha period, where feedback was given, then, regardless of the state, they had to release. People had paid for it. Unlike SC, where people are expected to pay and pay again, and CIG can continue to hide behind the shield of "ITS ALPHA!"
To date, CIG have taken in over 100x what they said they could make the initial pitch for (The best damn space sim ever!), they have taken in over 10x what they said they could deliver the expanded scope for, and they still haven't delivered on the scope of the original pitch, yet backers are expected to continue giving them more money, for who knows how many more years! And CIG continues to hide behind the alpha shield.
Trying to equate the disaster that was Odyssey's release with the disaster that is Star Citizen is just hilarious.
I'm also not sure what you mean by the last part. Both forums have fans and critics, but i don't see anything wrong with suggesting people wait for release before being overly critical with Odyssey's alpha, since it was of limited duration. If Odyssey had been in alpha for years, and FD kept asking people to pay for it over and over again, then it would have been a different matter.
I don't think many of us were too critical of CIG in the first couple of years after the kickstarter. Development takes time, we all know this. Its when the discrepancy between what CIG was saying and what CIG was doing became apparent that the criticism started and the laughter at the backers who would use the "You can't criticize SC, its alpha" as it became more and more laughable.