I've never really gotten the vibe that the people at the top 'love' Elite. There's been too much hesitant and negligent behavior for that. The way Odyssey was released, for example; was that a gesture of love?
Which isn't to say the actual developers don't love her. The detail put into things like the Titans clearly demonstrates that. But they clearly haven't been allocated the time or resources to make Elite what she could and should be. The sheer number of bugs that have existed for years without being fixed(most crucially at the moment probably being the rotational correction/'thargoid go WHEEEE when a player docks' bug which is GOING to cause a LOT of rage next week when Cocijo hits Sol) indicates that the priority is profit, not love.
Give them the resources needed to fix some of these problems and I'll consider it. Heck, fix the rotational correction bug and maybe a few others (the NPC-controlled fighter targeting issue?) and I'll do it no questions asked.