MorkFromOrk
Banned
That depends on his objective, however that's not what you said. "if you don't want to kill even an NPC and I mean EVER, then perhaps this really isn't the game for you" is untrue. You learn how to play defensively and run which is a perfectly acceptable tactic. Don't limit yourself by your preconceptions of the game.
The OP was talking about surrender ... the only people who are going to shoot you and try engage you in combat are NPC Pirates (to which, eventually there will be a surrender button) and PCs intent of flexing something.
I challenge you to be interdicted by an NPC pirate and you to drop some cargo ... You maybe surprised(Or I will if FD borked the mechanic ... they do stop shooting you and begin scooping the cargo giving you time to run)
It's not a preconception as that would be an opinion given before experiencing the game. It might be a misconception but since Gamma I have been interdicted on the outskirts of populated space by a number of discocondas that insist on trying to kill me without scanning me and even though I had zero cargo to drop for them. I have been attacked by a dropship that even in my Cobra managed within three seconds to somehow take my shield right down even with 4 pips to systems and fired a full salvo of missiles at me that would have destroyed me if I didn't have shield cells. It didn't kill me, I fought back and killed it. I ran from the anacondas on a couple of occasions. I I hadn't started with a stronger ship or been prepared for a fight or even a superior defence I would have needed to use my insurance.
I'm not saying he can't try to play peacefully but at some point it will probably go wrong and it isn't really a playing style that the game is designed for. I hope the days of being able to haul cargo from station to station complete free of any risk except dodgy parking are gone, and so far since B3.9 it seems to be headed that way and the OP simply might not like it whether he plays Open or Solo.