I'm OK with my losses, but here goes.
Ship 1: Hit boost button when deploying gear, creating fiery mess and left the splattered remains of about 500K of cargo on the station wall. Now, gear always goes down prior to entry. I think there was about 2 ohno seconds prior to impact.
Ship 2: Got my cobra rammed to bits by an asp, again while carrying a full cargo load. Not sure why I decided to engage. I could have run, but stupidly decided not to. I guess you could say the other guy got "rammed in his asp", but my guess would be that he didn't feel a thing. Pretty sure he just laughed at my misfortune.