*NOTE TO MODERATORS* I am posting this in ED General so it gets people's attention as I have started to see people labelling others as griefers. If you feel this thread should be in another section, feel free to move it.
The following advice was originally written by me for a game called Myst Online Uru Live (again) you can view the original here
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Now I will tell you the best way to deal with griefers.
The sad truth is that even if you do all of the above advice, (<--- see original article)
the griefer could still come back. Frontier cannot keep them out permanently.
Remember, you can choose to not let it bother you.
So how do you convince a griefer to leave you alone?
First think about why they do it. It isn't to annoy you, despite how it might seem.
No, they do it for attention. If you can deny them that attention, they eventually move on.
(note this next bit might be possible in Elite Dangerous)
You can happily put the griefer on ignore, this will help you.
It is very important you do not react to them, that gives them attention.
When I say do not react, this includes talking to them or moving your avatar.
(This next bit is explaining that you should not react to the griefer, no matter what. Not really possible in ED)
If the griefer is standing very close to your avatar, do not move.
If you move you give the griefer attention and they will move with you.
This method of not reacting may take some time, but eventually they will get bored.
You have to be determined to out-last them.
The result of this method, is that the griefer moves on, looking for attention from someone else.
I know this is not an ideal solution, but you are not being hassled anymore.
If you know who the griefer is targeting next, you can help that person with this article.
If we all take this approach towards griefers, they'll either leave the game,
or start behaving in an appropriate manner towards everyone.
The following advice was originally written by me for a game called Myst Online Uru Live (again) you can view the original here
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Now I will tell you the best way to deal with griefers.
The sad truth is that even if you do all of the above advice, (<--- see original article)
the griefer could still come back. Frontier cannot keep them out permanently.
Remember, you can choose to not let it bother you.
So how do you convince a griefer to leave you alone?
First think about why they do it. It isn't to annoy you, despite how it might seem.
No, they do it for attention. If you can deny them that attention, they eventually move on.
(note this next bit might be possible in Elite Dangerous)
You can happily put the griefer on ignore, this will help you.
It is very important you do not react to them, that gives them attention.
When I say do not react, this includes talking to them or moving your avatar.
(This next bit is explaining that you should not react to the griefer, no matter what. Not really possible in ED)
If the griefer is standing very close to your avatar, do not move.
If you move you give the griefer attention and they will move with you.
This method of not reacting may take some time, but eventually they will get bored.
You have to be determined to out-last them.
The result of this method, is that the griefer moves on, looking for attention from someone else.
I know this is not an ideal solution, but you are not being hassled anymore.
If you know who the griefer is targeting next, you can help that person with this article.
If we all take this approach towards griefers, they'll either leave the game,
or start behaving in an appropriate manner towards everyone.