Nah, thats just how you want to see it. Its an open world sandbox as DB would describe it, we can and should be able to play how we want. If you do find it so objectionable you can hop into solo or pg if you want to opt out of say an area thats got some hit squads operating in it.
Two can play at that game
Your interpretation of DBOBE's/FDEV's mixed signals (and yes I'm specifically blaming FDEV for this - they've singularly failed to define EXACTLY what they're intending this game to be) is just how you want to see it. That's an easy one
I don't think so if people want to play the game as a bunch of pschotic murderers thats their choice. I've been serially inderdicted by wings before too, I thought it was exciting particularly as I was out matched and numbered.. I escaped of course but it was fun.
This might come as a surprise to you; in my opinion, if people want to play CMDR Psychotic Murderhobo -
that's fine! It's just that - y'know...
let there be actual penalties for playing that way. Actual penalties for the murderhobo, rather than the game seemingly designed to specifically punish the victims!
I don't condone that, its counter productive and unfair on noobs.
And at the moment the game has nothing in it to punish or dissuade the miscreants.
That said when you die in a starter sidey you don't lose much do you? But if new players can't be bothered to understand the game modes or read the manual thats not really anyone elses fault but their own.
Blaming the victim - nice one!
The noob may just be losing their sidewinder as you say, but it's not a good start for them, nor will it give them the positive impression of the game that FDEV would naturally desire.
I never liked the segregation. Just as much as I can't shoot at people I can't see or encounter, I also can't befriend them, come to their rescue, or offer an escort and so on. Lots of gameplay lost. However, I'm happy for solo and pg to stay provided you stop moaning about percieved 'gankers' and 'griefers'. Fair enough?
Absolutely - if you can also understand that there are a lot of players out there who just want to play a modern version of Elite in piece and quiet - who aren't as social as you or I might be, and they are catered for by Solo mode. Also there are at least 20,000 players who want the social side of Elite without the out of context LULZ-Arena random Smiling Dog Crew "emergent content". So Private groups cater for that.
Not everyone has the same outlook on the game as yourself y'know
I've said this before but the game can't be like Arena. The distribution of players throughout the galaxy means thats impossible. And frankly I rarely see players even when I am in populated space. So its not like Arena, and nor will it ever be.
You say that, nevertheless there are player groups out there who treat Open
exactly like Arena - and you well know it.
Well during early development the focus was mostly on a single player experience, but they dropped the solo offline game and have moved with the times.
I loved the inclusion of "moved with the times", as if that was FDEV's reason for dropping Offline (which it wasn't - FDEV wanted dynamic injected content for everyone and they dropped Offline for exactly that reason. It was nothing to do with "moving with the times" - whatever that hyperbole means).
As it stands with Wings and the way FD have allowed for player minor factions I would argue the game can't be described the way you chose to anymore.
Beg to differ. For one, Wings was just another attempt at attracting Open co-op play - which indeed it has done. There are wings of Pirates, and wings of gankers

For another, the player minor factions are
NPC factions, in the name of the player groups choice only. 
Player groups are still having to play the Background Simulation to keep their virtual NPC faction happy.
So since its an open world game, a sandbox, its how anyone chooses to play it.
Okay let's examine the sandbox. It's a PvE sandbox with multiplayer glued onto it. It has multiple in-sandbox roles advertised; Trader, Explorer, Pirate, Bounty-Hunter. There are ranks in this sandbox for Combat (PvE and PvP-influenced with certain rules and ways of calculating based on the combat rank of your defeated opponent).
There are ranks in this sandbox for Traders.
There are ranks in this sandbox for Explorers.
There's even a rank for the PvP-Arena virtual-game-within-the-sandbox.
I don't see a Murderhobo rank. Why it's... it's almost as if everything else but being a murderhobo is considered positive in this sandbox!
I also think you completely miss the sentiment of "choose how you play". Or "Blaze your own trail". Choose how you play
within the context of the game content provided is the unstated end of that sentence. So if I were to choose to be a Trader and played in Open, I'd be on the lookout for Pirates. If I was interdicted, I'd either be cooperating with said pirate or trying to hi-wake out of there. If my engines were disabled then I'd probably be cooperating with said pirate and they'd be getting my cargo. If subsequently my ship was blown up by said pirate I'd still accept that as part of trading in Open.
Context is important.
If you want PvE only there are choices for you, if not then there is Open where people have the freedom to do whatever they want.
I've covered the PvE/Solo/Group aspect above.
And again I reiterate - sure - play however the heck you want - if that's the case, then surely it's good sandbox design for there to be suitable consequences for your actions within the sandbox. If there are people laying poo in the sand, they should also suffer consequences, not just the victims encountering the poo. Currently - and again this is entirely down to FDEV's fault - there are zero negative consequences for the poo-layers in the sandbox.
Not sure what you mean by that. I presume you are trying to malign or categorise how I play.
No, I just saw a disdain for other player's way of blazing their own trail - taking pictures of a PG galaxy, for example. I just detected a hint of scorn there.
I haven't had a battle with a player in the main game for ages, I went exploring. Seems to me you are upset because someone attacked you and destroyed your ship. Its a dangerous galaxy of course, one set against a backdrop of raw anarchy and powerplays. Btw you can fit the Clipper so it can outrun almost any other ship, bar the Cobra Mk III. Your bad I guess.
Nah. My Clipper being blown up at Shinrarta was almost entirely my fault, as I was "blazing my own trail" after a very short 800LY jaunt out of the bubble to revisit one or two systems I'd not completely scanned before, and I was caught unaware and very tired late at night as I was trying to fly back to Jameson Memorial to dock there before going to bed. I was flailing around and made many noob mistakes - the main one being I didn't try to hi-wake out. Combine that with the other player being in a battle-fitted Clipper against my Exploration-fitted Clipper, and well you can guess the rest. Boom. I was 90% upset at myself for mucking up so much, and 10% upset at the (certain player who I found out is notorious for interdicting and and murdering anything with a heartbeat), because of the utter pointlessness of interdicting me, knowing full well my paper Clipper was no match for them. Nothing was said, it wasn't piracy, and was an unwelcome intrusion into my little corner of the sandbox
Regards o7