Goose4291
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This is like a really bad version of "Blind Date".
Just sayin'.
Well I'm in.. if you ask me it...

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This is like a really bad version of "Blind Date".
Just sayin'.
<Really? - not needed>
Interesting thread - reminds me of online dating sites.
Here's a deal - if anyone manages to come up with a decent reason to PvP in this game, I'll swallow.
Now please name a reason.
Have you ever found yourself on the forums, at loggerheads with a rabid PvPer/PvEer, spending precious time arguing about your relative chosen playstyles? Have you ever accused PvPers of being griefers or PvEers being carebears?
Its often simply due to one side not really understanding another. Perhaps not being capable of understanding each other.
Well, before i continue, i'll share a little experience. Recently, i've become communicatively involved with a hardcore PvPer. I must admit, i was filled with tripidation at first. Would he treat me roughly? Would he try and dominate me? But after our first tentative communications, i was surprised to discover that they were actually a relatively normal person. No hint of baby eating or anything like that.
I'd like to introduce the community to my new chat buddy, CMDR Rinzler (the o7o7o7 may or may not be optional... i've not reached that level of familiarity yet). Yes, this is CMDR Rinzler from SDC, that rather well known and controvertial player group.
Now, i'm sure this will shock many. I've been rather coy about coming out as you might imagine. A hardened PvPer speaking normally with a hardened PvEer? No flames! No disrespect! Just listening to each others opinions and nicely discussing them.
And it got me thinking. What if every PvPer and PvEer who is capable of being reasonable, could make a friend from the other side? I certainly don't expect anyone to be converted from being a PvPer to a PvEer or vice versa. But having a friend on the other side, might help bring the two sides together, and make some of the stronger PvP/PvE discussions more moderate and friendly. You might start to write something scathing, and then think "Hey, my friend might not like this, maybe i should write something a bit more considerate?"
So, here we go, the first ever (and possibly last!), PvP to PvE matchmaking thread!
Find your PvP/PvE soulmate. A troubled and misunderstood player, just looking for love and symapthy.
There are no obligations. No lube is required. Just find a player from the other side, and arrange to be forum and in-game friends. Not even an obligation to meet up in-game or real life. Just talk to your new friend via whatever channel you prefer, one on one. Of course, no reason a PvPer or PvEer cannot have several friends, the more the merrier! And best of all, its legal!
Just make a post here, stating your orientation (PvP/PvE) and that you are looking for a friend from the other side, and see who bites!
Note 1: This thread might attract a bit on innuendo. However, keep in mind, this is a family friendly forum, so keep it to a reasonable level so posts don't get removed.
Note 2: Please, do not try and turn this thread into an open vs solo debate or a PvP/PvE debate. It is solely for those willing to open comms with differently minded people. There are other threads to debate such things.
Just remember a few things :
- that guy knew who he was dealing with
- they're quite good at PR and Propaganda, that's often what keeps them afloat
- keep in mind what these guys have done in the past and what they do every day. Their actions speak louder than words and no propaganda or smoothtalk will ever restore their rock-bottom reputation
And you gave them exactly that they're always after :
- visibility
- PR
- smoothtalk, based on the false impression you were handed
... hook, line, sinker.
So, with all due respect - you're making a tool out of yourself for these guys if you believe even for a split second those were "no disrespect, normal, nice people".
They've proven over and over again that they are the polar opposite. All their actions clearly demonstrated that. No PR or smoothtalk or "showcasing/acting" will change anything about that simple truth.
Repeated Mobius Infiltrations : check
Repeated EULA/License violations : check
Sniping a Cancer charity steam : check
PR attempts to cover their true nature : check
Any signs of them having even the slightest intention to change their behaviour : fail
Empathy or "understanding each other" is a 100% alien concept to these guys. More alien than anything we could ever encounter in this entire Project, no matter what Frontier could ever unleash upon us.
Just remember a few things :
- that guy knew who he was dealing with
- they're quite good at PR and Propaganda, that's often what keeps them afloat
- keep in mind what these guys have done in the past and what they do every day. Their actions speak louder than words and no propaganda or smoothtalk will ever restore their rock-bottom reputation
And you gave them exactly that they're always after :
- visibility
- PR
- smoothtalk, based on the false impression you were handed
... hook, line, sinker.
So, with all due respect - you're making a tool out of yourself for these guys if you believe even for a split second those were "no disrespect, normal, nice people".
They've proven over and over again that they are the polar opposite. All their actions clearly demonstrated that. No PR or smoothtalk or "showcasing/acting" will change anything about that simple truth.
Repeated Mobius Infiltrations : check
Repeated EULA/License violations : check
Sniping a Cancer charity steam : check
PR attempts to cover their true nature : check
Any signs of them having even the slightest intention to change their behaviour : fail
Empathy or "understanding each other" is a 100% alien concept to these guys. More alien than anything we could ever encounter in this entire Project, no matter what Frontier could ever unleash upon us.
I don't think that the community, who remembers past transgressions, are at the point where all sins can be forgiven. Not currently.
I also wouldn't feel comfortable knowing that friending a member from that group in game would basically allow them to troll me, because they would always know where I am.
I don't think this could work and if they aren't in the same mode then there's nothing that can be learnt.
Unless some one has a plan on how it could work?
I'd rather call it "putting things back on the right track". Your mileage may vary, though.
There are friendly, cool PvP players out there. They just don't make that much noise.
I meet CMDRs from Iridium Wing (? - those explorer protectors) in-game. Very professional at protecting explorers from danger (sadly they thought I might be that danger, but they where cool enough not to attack me. A very good encounter in this game).
There are other PvP players out there that don't mindlessly attack others just for the salt. I have very high respect for those 3 CMDRs who provided protection for my Orca on the Hutton Convoy event (gladly very uneventful, but probably very boring for them).
o7 to all those out there who have fun in PvP while understanding that not everybody constantly wants PvP.
It's not as if 'winning' the argument would convince anyone to play differently, it's all bit silly.![]()