Gosh, I'm late to this thread, and it seems pointless now to quote something from the OP...but I'm going to anyway.
You don't watch gymnastics and then pull your overweight hairy ass off the couch and start doing tumbles and flips... you're lucky if you can get up the stairs to the loo! I tried for years as a little girl to do the splits - never could do it. Does that mean we should call 'doing the splits' standing with your legs shoulder width apart so that every talking ape can do it?
If I was watching gymnastics, then, yes, you're right, I wouldn't be able to just get up and do it.
But I could go join a club, get instruction, practice, and get better at it, until I was as good as I was going to get.
And the really important thing is....
...all those people at the club I joined would welcome me to their sport, because they'd be happy that I was showing an interest in what they love doing. They'd help me, support me, encourage me, cheer me on, and celebrate the little successes along the way, until I reached my limit, whatever that might be, whether Olympic athlete or just 'tries hard, has fun' weekend warrior.
And if any one of them ever said "hey, you just can't do it" I'd find another club.
And if anyone in any of those RL things I do, and enjoy, ever said to someone else I was helping "hey, just give up on this, you just can't do it" I very much would not just stay silent.
In short - that whole attitude sucks. You don't have to be able to win the game, to play the game and enjoy the game. If people find it hard at first, then give help and support so they get through it, don't just raise a big old "you'll never be able to do it" barrier to entry, because that's just not nice.
The people who win marathons are only winners because there are thousands of people like me plodding along behind them. Otherwise they'd just be one person who has happened to run a long way very fast. Likewise, getting that 'Elite' rating in game is going to be a lot less rewarding when there's no-one around to say "well done", because they all gave up because they were told "you just can't do it". It's infinitely better to encourage them to play, and when our abilities cap us as 'mostly harmless' - then so what?
*disclaimer* I'm probably over-reacting because I've done a bunch of stuff involving disabled sport, not to mention able bodied sports, and equality of opportunity is a BIG thing to me. I suspect the OP just hit a few of my trigger points. Apologies if this comes off as a rant.
-edited to add- on a short reflection, and in the interests of balance - I completely support the view that the solution to people finding it hard is NOT to make it easier.
