Consider this: folk are always complaining about the grind and how un-fun it is. I, and others, have found a way to make the game much more fun and enjoyable.
End result: we're enjoying the game a lot more than the people who are complaining. Who's better off?
that you are having fun and you are finding the grind easier the second time you are starting from scratch does not mean there is no grind.
you already did the grind. the first time. now you know how to avoid extending the grind longer than optimal, because you know how to do things optimally. that you may be having fun while doing the same things the 2nd time does not mean you are not grinding.
you are.
you will have to amass a certain amount of money, rank a certain rank before you can get certain ships and progress to whatever you want to do. you wont stay in a sidewinder forever because it is a fun thing to do. you will move to vulture because you have to - otherwise you wont be able to do certain things in the game. similarly you will move to bigger ships when you want to do certain content, because you have to - since various gameplay elements mandate you have a bigger or stronger ship - or even visit certain systems.