That's because Elite Dangerous isn't any other game. It's completely its own thing, and really doesn't share much with games in its own genre. They don't have massive marketing teams at EA or Ubisoft deciding what lowest common denominator of gamers want.
In the words of Stone Cold Steve Austin:
The fact that Elite is NOT any other game is part of its appeal TO ME.
I'm so glad that, despite all the whining and crying Elite has not become the PvP'ers dream space-shoot-em-up, nor has it become a trader's paradise of endless hauling of stuff across the infinite void, bereft of anything happening.
Elite is unique, or as unique as it may get - it offers just enough of everything to legally claim to offer everything there is to do with a game of this type.
It's not Eve or Star Citizen, or Freelancer or Kerbal or anything else. And when the day comes that we can stand up and walk around, I'm sure there will be plenty more QQ that Elite isn't CoD in space either - and I'll be just as glad that it's not.
Now with that said...
I'm all too willing to accept that we can't micro-jump across star systems without creating Navel Orange Planets - or because David Braben Said So, or Whatever Reason You Like - however...
Perhaps there is room for some middle-ground. How about this: Along with The Lousy Tee-Shirt, the option to purchase a specialized "upgrade" at places like Hutton and those other extremely distant stations, that does allow for a significantly increased Super Cruise rate when traveling to those locations? Yes, it would require some highly-skilled "magical coding" on the programmers' end to verify that:
1. The Upgrade has been previously purchased.
2. The player is actually in the system the module is designed to operate in.
It could be called a "Hypercruise Upgrade", and allow us to reach higher-that-supercruise speeds in the systems with these extreme long haul locations, and would have to be purchased at one of these locations, meaning we'd have to have made the pilgrimage to them at least once without them.
Having made dozens of trips to Hutton Orbital, I know I'd welcome the "Hutton Orbital Hypercruise Upgrade" to reduce the number of episodes of X-Files I watch en route. And note, I did say Reduce - not Eliminate. I don't mind a 5 or 10 minute trip to a distant location. A two-hour trip of passing USS, maybe being interdicted, but usually nothing at all... let's just say THAT novelty has long, long since worn off.