I don't like David Bowie.
God knows I tried, but, I just cant !
Does this make me a monster ?
Why?

Its up to you, what you love and what you don't? But the lack / presence of love, don't give you right to force anyone. Especially if it's causes harm.
And talking about this? What kind of love you have, if simply to force in to another, you causing harm to him?
What you love, and what you don't is up to you! But you cant force your feelings to another, against his will, and well - begin.
About peace? Friendship is not a necessity, however? Neutrality
is. What is neutrality? both of you goes his separate ways, and avoiding hostility, to do against the other's will / causing harm to him, included. If any of these happens that means war.