That's the thing though isn't it. Britain was the suppressor and their actions didn't really affect the British people so the general populace has no need to feel anything about it. The Irish people on the other hand were the ones that had been suppressed so of course it's an issue for some of them.
When you have the suppressor telling the suppressed that they should just get over it, it's an additional slap in the face. A person would have to be quite bigotted to not see that.
Not quite as simple as that though...the suppression has always been there and terrible things did indeed take place. Nobody is denying that...not even gonna try and argue otherwise. The problem I have as a loyalist is that I can indeed fully respect their rights to identify as Irish...but only if they respect my rights to identify as british. Its called mutual respect and I see none of that here...all I see here is the british did this, the british did that, all their fault and they should have it rubbed in at every opportunity...thats the actions of a bigot. And bigots do indeed exist on both sides, and I know that fer a fact as I see it every single day in real life.
If they dont respect my beliefs, then to hell with theirs. Respect works both ways or not at all. Not my fault that history panned out like that...I wasnt even born so what this has to do with me, Im still trying to figure out.
Ive lost a lotta family and friends to the troubles of the last 4 decades...both catholic and protestant, and I recognize a bigot when I see one. Regardless where my roots lie, my family can be traced back to the early 17th century here when the trail runs cold on a french prisoner of war...maybe I should identify as being french. Thing is, my family has a long history of serving the british in military roles in both world wars among others...as british soldiers. My family has been british fer centuries basically and came from Leitrim until they were burned out of their own home in the 1960s.
I know...the shock of learning that happened on both sides can be hard to take in but it did. An oft ignored period where the irish were just as bad as those they hated...no those stories dont get asked for much because many would claim it never happened at all. Twas only the irish who felt the boots of oppresion on their throats wasnt it?
Thing is, Im now expected to identify as being Irish and some think I should feel ashamed of my british heritage...Im afraid its not quite that black and white however. Thats like saying americans should feel bad about where they came from when they found their lands uninhabited ^