4200 hours, Morbad? Not too shabby. I haven't looked in a while but I know that I had around 2400 the last time I looked. I have a bunch of ships including an Anaconda, but I hardly ever fly the old girl unless I'm going mining or heading out on another exploration trip. 99% of my gameplay is divided between an FdL and an AspX, can hardly pry me out of those guys. I suppose it would be fun to own a Corvette or Cutter, but I've really never felt compelled to work for one.
I've owned every ship at one point or another, many of them several times, though since I don't have tons of cash (for someone of my play time) and like to keep a large portion of my assets liquid (at least a third), I only keep a handful around at a time.
Currently I've got a 'fully' engineered Corvette, 'well' engineered FDLs and Couriers (both need more dirty drive rolls to get where I want but are otherwise complete), as well as a partially mothballed Clipper and AspX. I also keep a deliberately unengineered Viper Mk III (probably still my favorite ship) for NPC bounty hunting...otherwise they don't stand a chance.
Steve something or another. Don't like to name and shame/laud without explicit permission, but I've got some videos of how cavalier he his with his combat Anaconda. I don't really blame the guy, but I do think it's an absurd scenario that someone can take an A grade engineered big three and hurl it at people all night with the only downside being a three hours in Fehu or Quince a week.
You can base your fun on how you play the game rather than how other people play the game without having to play in a vaccum.
I play the game in a manner that makes encountering others quite likely, and I also have personal goals related to the background sim. I cannot ignore what other people have and how they play the game, nor they me, unless we retreat from the mode we most enjoy and try to pretend the BGS doesn't exist.