So you are saying that I am better, can do the job and function? Why should she worry, it is a massive upgrade, man moving from non functional to working. also LOL at the poorly designed wheels, and the miss fire all the girls love miss fires.
It seems the case that the wheels are so cleverly designed that they are perceived as bad

Nope, you clearly never played space sim or similar games before.
Even euro or space truck sim players and flight simmers would loathe having to deal with such cargo system, especially when it add so many wasted precious play time they would otherwise spend on actual 'flying'.
And you clearly don't even consider the inevitable repetitive nature of of MMO games, suppose you need to add 1 hour play time wasted from loading and unloading crates for every cargo haul mission and that you need to do such mission 100x to get enough profits to buy better ship, that's 100 hours of gameplay time completely wasted as dock labor.
And there's the MMO and AI problem
Every single crate has to be tracked down to it's precise location inside the ships, otherwise the AI wouldn't work, otherwise the MMO wouldn't work.
And that is a waste of computing resources, and a complete disaster waiting to happen due to how internet works.
Landing pad dampener? Flight dims has been doing that for decades! Not to mention ED also have it.
And speaking about gravity, do they also implement max take off weight?
I think you are putting too much emphasis on what you like and generalizing too much without a clear grasp of what the mechanic entails or even how it will play out in the end. Euro and Space truck sim players cant leave their seats can they? They are stuck with that job alone while in Star Citizen you are supposed to be able to have many options...
There was a in depth explanation of the economy, shopping and how cargo will work in the latest ATV starting @14:00 that might shed some more light:
[video=youtube_share;Nwiielzbuws]https://youtu.be/Nwiielzbuws?t=14m1s[/video]
I'll resolve a final judgement for when I'm able to test it because I was also highly skeptical of the shopping mechanic (because I hate doing it in real life).
[video=youtube;plwBJvrthic]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=plwBJvrthic[/video]