Also mate, why should I be the one who has to take a long week doing nothing but loading screens just to get a game I enjoy?
Seriously, your selfishness is immense.
You're defining selfishness as 'something you want and I don't'. That's fine but it goes both ways; someone wanting something that you don't is no more or less selfish than you wanting an experience that someone else doesn't.
I won't generally criticise someone for just identifying what they want the game to be but when you start calling people selfish for doing exactly the same thing, you don't really make it easy.
As I've said already, personally I want there to be some risk associated with the Thargoids. That includes the risk of getting pulled out of hyperspace and attacked when I'm in a ship with no weapons and a class 4 shield, the risk of a station I was basing myself from being blown to pieces during a conflict and having to relocate, the risk of the faction I've been building rep with for a month being utterly destroyed and other similar examples of exciting and innovative gameplay which would advance the lore of the game and my character, force me to make choices and set priorities, take risks and generally add some spice to the overall experience of playing the game.
What I don't want is to spend three nights hauling stuff around the bubble in a T6 with no shields in perfect safety, then have to decide 'OK tonight I'm going to enjoy THE THARGOID EXPERIENCE TM, jump in my FDL, fly to THARGOID EXPERIENCE SECTOR ALPHA 3, do fighty things for two hours, then fly back to the safe zone, jump back in my unshielded T6 and go about my business as if nothing at all was happening. That is not in any way the kind of organic gameplay experience I have come to expect from games in 2017, it's like introducing the Thargoids as CQC, separated from the game proper.
You don't want that? Fine. Just stop telling people that they are selfish if they do want it because you are doing exactly the same thing - prioritising your own desired game experience over what some other players want.