Dagger, you're too invested to see what they've done to your fave characters. Luke hasn't remained static or come to realise some great truth about the force- the team took a well established male icon and depicted him as bitter, twisted, murderous old tramp. Mary Poppins Leia came about to demonstrate that she's super powerful and got gud with the Force just like her brother. Ray is a Mary Sue by deliberate intent, not because there's any pressing plot or story driven reason for her to be just
amazing at everything with absolutely no training or prior experience.
Have you read the old nursery rhyme about sugar and spice? That's the level of care, respect and thought the team have put into this project. The entire gig is a political statement. I can respect your opinion on the humour, that's a subjective thing. I'd have laughed like a drain if Chewie shared his Porg fry with the big eyed money makers, but it might have cost Disney in soft toy sales! But there is no way on Earth you can pretend earlier installments were anything like as blatantly political in nature. (Or even political at all- what news story ran alongside Empire? The shipyard strike in Poland? The West boycotting the Olympics? The Staggers Act deregulating the railways? I'm not seeing much connection with ice planet battles or flying mines!)
That wouldn't matter quite so much if they'd treated the established characters with a bit of respect, but the current fashion is to denigrate and destroy previous work. It's not enough for Luke to bow out gracefully, he has to be shown to be a weak, self pitying, potentially murderous failure, his potential utterly unrealised. The trap is even worse for Leia; she has to be demonstrated to be more and better than her brother, but a team utterly bereft of ideas beyond their own real world ideology couldn't come up with anything better than making her look like Supergirl's gran!
It's interesting that you come up with the notion that the First Order have any kind of ideology or tactics- where did you take that from? There is absolutely no hint of what they believe in either movie, nor do they show any kind of tactic beyond rocking up and mudering everything. But if they're N*S*D*P it's ok to punch them, I suppose... amIright?