I'm sorry for the hand that both you and your daughter have been dealt. I simply cannot imagine what kind of resilience it must take for each of you on a daily basis to soldier through it all. Your attitude speaks to your strength of character and I'm sure your daughter has inherited it from you.
And I agree about the instant lifetime ban.
I could go to my nearest cancer ward, set up a lawn chair and laugh at each and every cancer patient coming and going through the door. I could mock them and taunt them and call them derogatory names. I could follow them to their cars and blame them for their lot in life- that they deserve it and are getting what's coming to them.
But I don't. Why?
Because I have more than a scintilla of humanity and decency.
I can't do anything about someone doing that IRL if they so chose to. Perhaps a legal argument could be made that they should stop; perhaps it's their freedom of speech. But it's out of my control.
In a game like this, just because something is possible, doesn't mean it's a good idea to do it. Unlike in real life however, Frontier has the power to do something about it.
I'm not saying that Frontier should remove the black market or play with the coding to remove the black market as some have suggested or to disable the ability to UA bomb the ship. I actually think that this is an opportunity for the decent among us to step up and show the vile slime mold (I love that moniker btw) that we're better than them. Prove to them that if they can make the trip for hate, the better among us can do it for the greater good. Mucking with the coding is akin to letting SDC (or whoever it was who was responsible for coordinating this atrocity) win and that seems wrong on every level.
What I think Frontier should do however, is to create some backstory that would allow them to identify the individuals responsible and to place a bounty on their heads so large that any mercenary in a Corvette or FDL wouldn't be able to resist taking them down. Make their lives absolute misery as long as they choose to play in open. Make them wanted throughout the entire bubble. If there were ever a justification for naming and shaming, let this be it.
I lost my mother to glioblastoma in August (brain cancer- same as Gord Downie, Beau Biden, Jimmy Carter, John McCain to name but a very few). She fought it for a year and a half. I was with her on her deathbed as she died. I held her hand and watched her breathe her last. It was the hardest thing I've had to do - absolutely nothing has compared. The best thing I've ever done was take a month and a half worth of leave from work to fly out to spend the time with her in her last days. It was the thing that made her most happy -seeing me every time she woke up (she was sleeping almost 22 hours a day towards the end). She would always smile when I came to her. I will never forget her face - bloated from the dexamethosone and caked with sleep around her eyes as it was, light up when I came by her bedside.
If this ship gives DoveEnigma a smile, then there's every reason to fight to keep it alive.
Meself and me daughter lost someone very close to us when she was barely old enough to have a clear memory of what she looked like to cancer. As though mother nature and her sense of humour thought itd be funny to make it a genetic cancer that affects women only...my daughter is so far only missing about 14% of her right lung so far. Shes 15.
She got my autism and her mums cancer...cool thing to grow up knowing ye probably wont reach old age.
However...onwards and upwards. Reading through this thread has been a good reminder to me why I stopped using this forum, but Ill bite my tongue on what I could say to some only to say ye understand nothing until ye live with it and watch it take everything and everyone ye care about. The watching part is the worst...ye know its bad when ye aint prayed since ye were 6 but ye pray to God to just take them in the end...in the end, death is a mercy.
I dunno who did this thing...but its a sign of a very toxic element of players...a few of whom Im starting to see here and there on these forums recently. This place got boring, no sense of humour just salt salt moan moan...bored wandered off so forgive me if I admit to not knowing anything about this entire venture until now.
Tis a shame on this community to know players like that are still here...such an act, using legitimate game tactics or not, still constitutes the most toxic form of griefing there is. Imho, that should be an instant lifetime ban in any game ^