So here's the thing: Believe it or not, most PvPers are not socially awkward, sociopathic, or in any other way disconnected from empathy or "emotional intelligence". You can throw those labels around all you like, but that only displays a decidedly passive aggressive attitude. Take me for instance: Im a PvP murderer. Granted I don't troll Sidewinders, and prefer my victims to be wanted, but I also enjoy murdering people 10ks LS from the sun in anarchy systems. Am I socially awkward? No! In fact the opposite is true. I've lived in 5 different countries in my life, I'm married, employed, own a house and car and have a circle of friends that stretches the globe. What gives? How does this fit your model of PvPer?
Could it just be, that PvPers don't see the loss of virtual items as something to be concerned about? You may argue that "oh no! All my time has been wasted!! I lost xyz mission/cargo/credit hand in when I died, that took me *hours*!" To which I say, what sad existence must you lead to have made yourself miserable for hours for the prospect of a measely virtual payout at the end of it all?