yeah, I get this, sort of, but I also have the belief that solo is hurting the gameplay for many of reasons previously explained, and that it could all be remedied to everyone's benefit within the open universe.
What I do fail to understand is the absolute refusal of many soloists to even consider the options presented. It's like they simply have some huge irrational fear of playing with other people.
What I fail to understand is how you can't see that solo isn't nor has it ever been a problem nor has it ever hurt the game play in Open or elsewhere. What has hurt the game play of Open is the actions of those who play in Open.
You talk about the absolute refusal of many "soloists" to even consider the options presented... what about the proven absolute refusal of some in Open to leave others well enough alone...even to the point of sneaking into PG's to PVP them? If someone bought the game because they loved the original and wanted to play it like the original.. why do you care? If someone loves the game but their net sucks so they struggle with other commanders nearby and play in Solo... why do you care?
Why are so many vocal "Open Only" people so damn determined to force people in other mods into Open? Having everyone forced into Open isn't going to create some strong knit community kum ba yah. You will be doing what Eve tried to do force everyone to PVP. Heck you have people in Eve complaining about people hanging out in "high sec" just the same as you and others complain about people in Elite playing in other modes. You know why they complain though... because they can't shoot them... or at least easily.. they have found ways to circumvent that and cost Eve many plays (myself included).
Some point to an "Open Only" mode as a "true" multi-player game... horse hockey... if that were true then MMOs like WOW, SWTOR, and others would only have one server... they don't they give people a choice. Ultima Online started with one world, but Pkers made it so miserable, especially for new players that they came up with the idea that the world was trapped in a gem and it was shattered creating "shards" aka servers. Even with Elite Dangerous it is the PKers within the PVP community that seem to drive the direction of where people go... so if FDev bowed to you and others and made Elite Open only.. you will see where others go... to different games.
And for your information I play with others.. it is called a PG. I just don't have to deal with PVP or seal clubbers.