Actually, no - I would prefer people behave appropriately, if they can not then they should be forced to mend their ways or be banned permanently. That is not about wanting people to suffer, that is about appropriate justice.
Wanting people to suffer is a sociopathic trait.
Hmm not even a criminal IRL? You see a criminal steal a handbag, you may not be in a position to directly help but you want the reprobate to receive their comeuppance. You want them to pay, right? The feeling I am describing is pretty typical behaviour.
I think you are imagining I believe everyone is
primarily a griefer, and that's evidently not the case I agree, very few would watch that criminal steal the handbag & laugh at the suffering of the victim. Some would feel compassion for the criminal & want to help them lead a better life/reform too, I empathise with that trait, after they have been caught (in my case).
So it's a matter of degrees. I score low for griefing on the Bartle test (for what it's worth), even lower for sociability. Primarily I'm an Achiever, which lines up with my Triple Elite take a combat Corvette to Beagle Point because it's there kind of thing.
Now my view is inevitably tainted by my low social score, I'm not really interested in group activities or the people that choose that path, it also means I don't really mind whether I'm popular or not. I just say what I think & sometimes others agree. Often they don't. That's not being a griefer, that's just
not being all that social
