I'm having a lot of trouble getting into this from the PC. I don't want to invest in expensive hardware here
Good news here is that you don't - while a lot of people do use HOTAS and even VR, it's perfectly possible to win top-level matches with cheaper stuff (among the more experienced players on PC, as well as the traditional effective KB/M option, there is also at least one with an old PS3 controller, and I play keyboard-only)
As far as playing versus similarly-ranked commanders goes:
- if there are enough people playing, it does appear to attempt to sort matches by rank ... but it's not usually this busy.
- at slightly busier times of day there will at least be more players on so you're not needing to fight the rank 50 on your own (you won't *win* many matches - I was rank 30something before I got my first win - but you should be able to get some kills and progress down versus other beginners).
- TDM mode does a reasonable job of automatically balancing teams (usually: sometimes it's very skewed especially with 3v4 matches) so you could try that instead.
For fighting more experienced players:
- consider using the Sidewinder once you reach rank 2. It's a very tough ship to fly well on the attack, but if you keep 4 pips to systems when under fire and time the SCB use right, it takes absolutely ages to kill, so most experienced players will go shoot at something else, and this gives you some early-game time to learn the maps and pick up some assists
- make sure your pips are set properly. Putting 4 pips to systems when under fire will make you considerably tougher than 90% of beginners.
- if you see an experienced player fighting a beginner, shoot at the experienced player. Best case they die under the 2v1 odds and you can shoot the other beginner too for maximum points ... fair chance that they retreat and you can again kill the other weakened beginner ... worst case they kill the other beginner and then come for you but at least you have full shields and they don't so you have better odds.
- join the CQC Discord -
https://discord.me/elitedangerouscqc - and get some tips. Most of the experienced players are there and will be able to give more advice. There are also a lot of newer players looking for matches, so you might be able to find a good one.