I'm flying a fat trader ship. You're a pirate, and you knock me out of SC to normal space to grab my cargo. I'm wearing the Rift and/or using a HOTAS with my keyboard pushed away, so I don't have an easy way to communicate via text. So whether you're issuing a "Stand and Deliver" or not is irrelevant. I just quickly select two random cans from my cargo -- and not necessarily my prize cargo, either -- and I eject those two cans. Then i quickly boost away, FA Off, and try to enter SC again.
What's your next action? Will that be enough, or will you chase me and blast me out of the sky because I didn't drop all my cargo, or stop to listen to your exact demands? And if you do kill me, why wouldn't I then put you on my Ignore list? And maybe even tell my trader friends, so they can Ignore you too? Again, that's from a "typical trader" perspective and not how I would personally act in the game.
Firstly let me say a big thank you to you for actually engaging with a well thought out response. It comes as a refreshing change I must tell you. You do bring up an excellent point. How much is enough?
In all honesty if you ditched something worthless and I thought you were holding out on me, personally I would attempt to mass lock you and disable your ship. As a pirate I would most likely be in a cheap, fast and small vessel with teeth, more than capable of keeping up with you. One with a pretty low cargo cap. This would give you some indication of how little cargo would satiate "pirate me".
Truly though the comms issue makes some of what I discussed earlier pretty moot, but I am looking to the long term, release version side of the experience. Would you, as a rift user, have voice (ie a mic and something like voice attack) set up? I know I would prefer to use the in game voice system over text chat for piracy, due to the immediacy of response and the fact that I, too, would not be wanting to take my hands off the stick in a potentially volatile situation.
There's no real right answer here, I'm just getting rather irked at the expectation that being pirated in the game should be some hand holding, holistic, nicey nicey experience.
As someone who is primarily trading, of course I would prefer not to be pirated, but when I am eventually interdicted, I expect it to not be a pleasant experience with tea and cucumber sandwiches. I expect to have my in game life in the balance. At that point, as a trader I would have to decide what is more valuable, my ship? Or what I'm hauling. Every pirate is going to be different, some may be merciful, some more ruthless. Like I said previously; to expect a code of conduct from a scallywag is oxymoronic.
I think with regards to the ignore list the only way to prevent it's abuse, and putting people on it who aren't griefing or harassing is clearly an abuse of it's intention, is if a player can only be ignored during or immediately after an interaction. Maybe triggered by being targeted or something. Otherwise we will see sites like reddit with lists of confirmed player pirates going up for people to add to their ignore list, which is a manipulation of the function outside of it's intended use.