Would you prefer it if the game became as pro-PvP as possible if FD follows the exhortations of a vocal pro-PvP contingent?
i think the ideal would be a balance between the 2 play styles and i think this is one of the few games that could do a good job of it.
we have corporate state systems with hardcore policing and factions with control over large area's of space. you are not going to get much in the way of PvP in the core worlds as you wont be able to get away with being a pirate and no pirates = no bounty hunters.
then we have a sliding scale of PvP with democracies, communist systems and the like all the way down the ladder to anarchy systems. anarchy's will be a safe haven for pirates and the systems around them a great place to bounty hunt, PvP will be possible if not mandatory in those areas of space.
so, if you dont want PvP you either have the option of playing solo or staying in the safer systems, but if PvP is your thing then the edge is the place where you will find your kind of play style.
take that lot into account and i think the PvP paranoia is just that: paranoid