Star Citizen definitely has a speed limit, and it has its own fly by wire system, it's simply different. If you prefer one over the other you are absolutely entitled to that.
Most of what you wrote though was a rather bizarre attempt to generalise your own sentiment into a broader message. Bear in mind SC had made tens of millions before anyone had flown it at all. It's not that the masses chose SC over ED for its flight model, if anything their style of presentation has been far more significant in attracting crowd funding
Indeed ED was criticised for being very quiet on the publicity front for a very long time, and Braben et al. still don't go in for huge public presentations on the whole, they've mostly done smaller press presentations of existing features (whereas SC has often previewed future material and spent more time on promises than existing gameplay, if you'll excuse that way of phrasing it.)
In practice the gaming media has raved about ED, and there has been a slow ramp up of attention over the last six months or so. I expect the game will, in the end, sell itself on its results.
In my opinion the oculus rift will sell a lot of units for David Braben. It is the gaming experience on the rift ATM. Word of mouth will sell this game instead of big billboards.
As the biggest competitor sc is still years away from release ed will be the go to space sim for a while. Hopefully it will do for space sims what wow did for mmorpgs.