I was speaking in terms of how an in-game character perceives the world around them, which is their reality, even if it has little resemblance to ours.
It's just pixels, isn't it? No need to really care about anything in it, it's "just a game, dude." That's what I've been told more than once by PvP people, including some of the distant gankers.
I take my entertainment quite seriously and consider it important and fulfilling part of games like this to become invested in my characters.
I can still tell the difference between myself and my characters, and our respective realities.
Everyone still has a right to civility and consideration.
And this is generally what other players get from me, even if my CMDR is destroying their CMDR's vessel for a reason that may be an utter mystery to them.
I respect the game and those playing it by keeping negative out-of-character interactions to a minimum and adhering to the game's rules to the best of my ability. Accommodation beyond this is as unreasonable as asking me not to place the opposing king in check when the opportunity presents itself in a game of chess. I will play my characters as I deem fit, within the rules of the game, and if someone doesn't like how my character behaves, they are free to have their character do something about it.
Ftr, before anyone starts telling me how what people do in games means nothing, how some of the nicest people in the world are those who go around meticulously planning how to cause maximum upset to innocuous users of a video game, my own personal view is that the games we play and how we choose to play them are in fact deeply reflective of who we are as human beings... all alone inside our skulls.
The only criteria that really matters to me with regard to other players is if they can follow the rules of the game or not. Beyond that, I have no way of knowing, nor do I care in the least, who they are as human beings, or even if they are human beings. I'd be perfectly content surrounded by convincing chatter bots to fight.
Your interpretations of what someone is like based on the actions of their character may or may not be accurate, but I don't see how they are relevant either way.
Just my point of view, and if we're not here to listen to each other and freely exchange views and ideas, then I don't see the point of any of this anyway.
That is what the forums are for.