Agree.Imho it's realy a pointless discussion since the two games are so different and it comes down to personal preference.
ED is much more realistic, NMS is more fantasy and it shows.
What does matter to me is how much gameplay a game delivers, what the devs bring into the game for me to interact with and not just to look at.
In that respect NMS gives me a lot more versatility then ED does, there's much more to do.
ED looks way better, but is pretty shy of things to do, empty planets may look nice but they're still empty.
In NMS planets might be not so different from eachother when it comes to finding resources but I can land on all of them, visit caves, go out diving.etc.
In ED the planets you can land on aren't so different from eachother either, it's either rock or ice and the resources you can find aren't so versatile either and the only way to get them is to shoot at rocks.
The things that realy shine for me in ED compared to NMS is the graphics, the science involved regarding the galaxy as our playground, the sound and space flight/combat.
Further interaction in ED is way to minimal imho, that's where NMS shines for me.
In the end I like both games and am glad I have them both.
And in a way the empty planets and the beautiful star filled sky in Elite is kind'a indicative of the game as a whole. It's empty of things to do, sure there's some things but not a lot, and many features are half-baked, but it's all very pretty and realistic, just like the desolate, atmosphere empty planets.
While NMS is colorful and filled with things to look at, almost to the point of being too busy. And now with the new version, there's so much you can do, to the point it's hard to even remember all different categories of activities, it's like a rainbow of Skittles both in how it looks and feels and how much stuff there's in there to see and do.