Thread #167 for this same request.
True but since the request hasn't been answered yet, one can go on asking
I absolutely concur with the OP for several reasons which I won't take the time to state now again.
It's about consequences for ship destruction so I'd suggest a crew member adds a significant amount to the ship's rebuy. Also, when losing a ship with crew on board, reduce their experience level a bit, for all I care, and explain it with a dent in their self-confidence...
And while we're at it, let us order our crew from within the ship, not just in stations, just like we're able to invite pilots in multi-crew. Add a little consistency...