Just to counter that, in a polite, devil's advocate way, a lot of the time I see people complaining about 'the grind' and is often, it is claimed, not about them personally but they understand how off putting it is for the newcomer. This is rather undone by the amount of people that faced the same (if not worse) challenges and are still playing to this day. So when the ones you describe as 'Elitist' make these comments, I don;'t believe they're trying to protect their status, I think what they're saying is, we all did it, you can too. I don't think there is a lot wrong with that.The gold farmer complaints have been around since the original days of MMOs and are an elitist thing. The basic premise, which is common amongst forum trolls who believe any change is bad (because they are already 'leet), is based on (typically) neckbeards with nothing but time on their hands get jealous that someone may have an opportunity to keep up with the Joneses. They believe that the game is "fine" because they already have done the grind, and therefore it protects their most elite status. Ironically, against all their arguments on the forum, they are not arguing for 'play the game as you would like, you don't need to be G5 rated' and instead, they are really saying, "I want to protect my status because if you 'catch me' then I somehow now lose enjoyment for how I chose to play"
The 'just play the game' argument I guess, is a natural occurrence from people who did start this game years ago, and have seen change after change come along. It's not like, say, RDR2 where the game was released as a complete package, one day with very little adjustment made since.
As has been cited before, someone buying the game today must be tempted to watch a Sidey to Conda in a day YT vid and follow that.