Now - about that I have a thing or two to say! You need to be a bit more tolerant, Pugsy!
I've recently ventured out in Open - I mean, I'm playing Odyssey, which is as good as a PG - and flown to Jameson

! I'm jump-skimming - just scooping enough to keep me from running out whilst minimizing my in-system time. So I'm consumed with the flying part of the game to avoid hitting the exclusion zone and timing my jumps to almost, but not quite, hit 90% heat. It's involving. So just before the countdown I see that someone has o7 in local. Then immediately I see "How rude!" and I'm gone...
Now I reach Shinrarta and there's a ton of comms and quite a few players farting around - someone who failed to gank another getting uppity because his prey got away from him - so I reach Jameson without incident but there's a lot of chat, so I put the landing sequence on automatic so that I can respond to the hails and join in the conversation - a little taunting the poor unsuccessful ganker - probably not a good idea - anyway, while I am typing away, I'm entering the station and some nut in a Imperial Cow is sitting at the cattle prod, berating me because he nearly boost-exited straight into me and telling me I'm an idiot...
So in trying not to be rude, and handling my communications while letting my ship fly itself in, I get told I'm an idiot! You can't have your cake and eat it. Either I'm busy piloting and you have to consider that I don't immediately see your comms - or I'm talking to you and not necessarily situation away. You can't have it both ways!
/rant