That's not behaviour exclusive of just Aunt though, there was plenty here acting that way who still have trouble admitting they're being "haters" because that would bring some introspection that might make them selfawarewolves like you said before.
Seems like there's a huge emotional bias fuelled by a great Elite fanboyism that makes them feel good to attack SC for things that also happen in Elite and with Frontier, and many other companies by that matter, but they make a blind eye because their not emotionally invested in hating those games and companies. It's like SC is all they know and think about. Which is why they think having a playable alpha advertised and sold as such is a demonic offence while having no qualms with Frontier releasing Odyssey in such a sorry state that even Braben had to come out of exile to pretend he still cares about it's "baby".
I've said it before though. If these seemingly "mega Elite fans" showed as much care and thought for Elite as they show for everything about SC, Frontier wouldn't have dared to release Odyssey in that state. Doing so many have opened their eyes and gone refugee and even rogue while others have no other option than doubling down on their antics.
One thing is certain, as time goes by these antics and intentions became more apparently emotionally biased and deceitful. It hasn't been about gaming for them for a long time now, but about saving face.
And, just like getting Elite in worthy enough shape for refugees to come back, it's not getting any easier.
Just like D2E hasn't had it easy trying to carry boxes in SC:
Umm... you know most of us here are critical of FD as well when they drop the ball right?
Sorry if that breaks your theory.