I think if you were introduced to ED as a shooter 'Game' it's no problem.... But I'm guessing a lot of people was introduced to ED as an alternate life 'Simulator'. My first 2 vids I saw was the girl that was crying when she finally Earned her permit to go home to Sol... and the other vid(s) was from Isinona....
Isinona played the rawest form of ED... Absolutely no rebuy ever... if he was destroyed he always takes the stock sidewinder... (Hes an old school youtuber). Always flies FA-off and if you look at the youtube comments, even vets looked up to him. But the point was people played ED as a lifestyle, you learned the rules of engagement, and felt respect for other players like a badge of honor cause you know they struggled and spent hundreds and thousands of hours learning to 'live the ED experience'... I'v had times when I was on the phone with people and told them 'I gotta go, they running out of stock on agronomic treatment'..... Like I'm really at the store. ED can be magical in the way it sucks you in as an alternate life.... like the matrix...... So my first time getting ganked fo no reason or role play was like the most Grand Violation, I was raised to never treat other people like that. so with this being an alternate life, it was personal.... That was an awesome question by the way, really curious to see how other people connect to ED as well.
Edit... Plus I play in VR so the immersion of the attack was scary as hell!!!
Edit 2.... It was also the intensity of the youtubers that I watched while still in the beginners zone.... The way The Pilot gave every ship a 'life' as it's own character.... the way Obsidian Ant showed you the beautiful places waiting for your arrival.... The way Exigious broke down all the data for you like training... The pure passion from D2EA with all his NASA stuff behind him.... The belief from HawkesGaming that if you follow 'these' steps, you too can get all the Space Cheddar'.... and I think it was Ghost Giraffe that show how real and accurate the original devs took ED to be exact replicas of NASA's profile data of all our planets even down to the reason for the gaps in Saturn's rings..... They (and many others)made this place real!