There was a discussion on the Space Station 13 forums a while back. A big, pointless pedantic argument about the technicalities of their mafia-in-space game, in which one person was essentially complaining that other people who played the game had friends who also played and this was affecting their in-game interactions (rather than playing this roleplaying game purely tactically regardless of who the other character was) - the discussion went on for ages, and towards the end, one simple statement was made that I've found needs to be printed out in gigantic text on every game community on the face of the planet, especially when the hardcore crowd move in:
The moment you forget that this is a game, a thing we primarily play for fun, is the moment you are out of touch.
So with that, 90s, all your talk of players "limiting" themselves, I have one simple question:
Who the hell do you think you are to tell other players how to spend their free time?
Now that deserves 10000 Cargo Units of Cubeo Razorback Bacon. Well said.