Okay if I may make an Uneducated observation, since I didn't read all of what OP posted (too much since there is a DC, I just won't bother with one). IS OP playing this game with a Mouse/Keyboard combo? IF they are, that is the biggest obstruction to landing well. Once I got my x52 (Pro, x52 or any other Hotas type stick, will be fine too), the game became far more enjoyable to me, especially since I used to play Elite with my Atari Joystick on my c64. So if you aren't using a Hotas while playing I strongly suggest getting one even if it's an el cheapo of some kind, I paid a bit more for mine cause I Wanted a name I knew and could trust to make a good product.