No matter what we try we are not able to play together. We can join up in a wing but no matter what tricks we see online to get to play together it doesn't work! We can highlight each other but when we get close we can't see each other. It's like we are in different instances. And it shows we are right next to each item her but the npc ships around me he can't see either. How can we get to actually play together? The whole reason I got this game was to play with my friend and in the 6 months I've had the game we have only been able to play together one time. I don't understand how if we are in private play we are put in different instances. Someone please patch this major issue or tell me how to remedy this problem. We have tried almost every trick we have seen online and they don't work. Help!!