You do make a fair point and I'm probably being far too critical.. I suppose I just want the game to get better is all
We all do. But sometimes, it's just time to take a breather. I've been there as well.
Several times I've run into situation where I ran out of things to do, simply. Started seeing only bad. That kind of stuff.
Sometimes, just forcing yourself from your comfort zone, a certain mindset you've developed, is enough. First time it happened to me, it was Powerplay that dragged me out of the hole. I spent months serving our Blue Khaleesi.

It was fun but also didn't last forever.
I started doing BGS (I still do, in private, but that time it was serious) Had a great run with bunch of awesome people.
Next time, horizons came and it was time for my first
real exploration trip. Before I haven't seen the reason to go out and look at differently coloured balls in space, but with an SRV it was great. I ended up circling the whole galaxy, spending over two months out there and by the time I came back, it was Engineering time.
I felt like I don't have any drive to keep going forward. I was a tripple Elite, I had all the ships, it felt dull to just start and engineer them one by one, because what's the point?
So I cleared my save and started over. And since then, I haven't had a dull moment. I swore to myself that when ever I feel like grinding, I will take a couple days off and think of different things I want to achieve. I really started to enjoy mining, of all things. I started roleplaying, too.
Without a single second of mind-dulling action, always having fun, I was back in my Cutter after three months, nonetheless. I said to myself "Hey, so what now? Will I have to start again?" Fighters saved me this time. I really bonded with my co-pilot and we've been running and gunning through the bubble ever since. It takes great care to not die, too. I don't want to lose her. But we've been through some rough spots.
I also thought I'd embark on the Distant stars expedition, but thanks to R/L workload, it didn't work out. Never mind, there's plenty to do. And there will be more.
I've spent more time in the seat of my ship, than I have in all other games I've ever played, combined.
I'm a fanboy, yes, sometimes I nag people. Sometimes I have to force myself into repulsive optimism, sometimes I defend Elite just because I know that it will annoy people and sometimes, it will force them to take another look - "What in the hell is it about that game that made Chris love it so much? Have I overlooked something?"
Elite needs a unique approach, that's for sure. I believe I found my balance. I wish everyone could.
Okay, I'll see myself out of this thread.