Ok, time to put on the waders and go for a walk into this.
I'm an amateur astronomer. I take pictures of things so far away that humans were not even around when the photon that just landed on my CCD left the source. If you want to feel small put the video game down and go and take a look at the constellation of Leo, and the surround areas of sky though a telescope.
It's easy to say destruction is small and creation is bigger, but have you seen the colours of M1 and the ring nebulae, the brightness of the helix nebulae. Stars that have gone supernova. They are white dwarfs now. But in that moment of destruction, ALL of the elements heavier than iron were formed. See that gold ring you have, silver neckless, uranium power station fuel? Yup came from exploding stars.
As was quoted above. The stars literally gave their lives for you to exist.
As for God. Sure if makes you feel better, but for me I prefer to give the universe the full credit it deserves for creating life and all the wonders we see around us. Humans don't know it all though and there is a long way to go. Go a get a telescope or visit an observatory.. if you like this kind of stuff, you'll be blown away but the view. Especially when you consider that every star you see is in THIS galaxy.
Fly Safe.
PS. There is some of my images...
http://www.astrobin.com/users/darksky001/