I don't think any fixing is required, ya'll just have to acclimate a little bit. I'll have to admit, it took a little getting used to. Now I can take my Imperial Eagle to CZs, and still come out alive. I killed a corvette with a DBS just the other day. My new FAS? Pfffft. Trashin' em.
Just gotta adjust your strategy a bit, as a few mentioned before. Pick your battles, run when you must. Keep an eye on your sensors, if suddenly there's a whole lotta red, bail out. PIP management is more important than ever before.
If anything, WING UP! It helps to have someone to take the heat off once in awhile.
Keep trying. You'll get used to it soon enough.