I got the HOTAS X when I was just dipping my toes into ED. It's a cheap toy. When it became clear I would keep playing ED I replaced it with the T.16000M and TWCS throttle. I liked the throttle and the precision of the stick's sensor, but the quality again was abysmal. My 16000 lasted two months or so until the infamous yaw issues started. Also, the buttons on the stick base are useless, the placement is terrible, doubly so in VR.
My next stick was the Logitech X52 Pro, which I used for the bulk of my flight hours. I think I'm around the 1500 hour mark, and I did at least 1200 of those on the X52. I had two issues with it. One, after six months the spring place became sticky and started making noises. This is easily fixed with a chap stick (yes). Greasing the friction points with a chap stick made the stick smooth as silk and eleveated the feeling of the stick to another quality level. The second issue was a broken wire in the grip that I had to resolder. If you cannot maintain the stick yourself or care about warranty issues like that might be a no-go. A third issue on my throttle starts to creep up, the softeners in the coating of the throttle have started to evaporate and it's starting to feel sticky (A problem you will have with all coated plastic at some point; my Samsung tablet has the same issue). Also, some hate it, but I really liked the programming possibilities of the three modes of the X52, although the software is a little clunky and not well maintained.
I still use the X52 throttle, but I replaced the stick with a VKB NXT Gladiator EVO (that's a mouthful) with a premium grip. It's fantastic, but has a steepish learning curve to program it. It's a really great stick well worth its price tag. Very precise, no (!) deadzone, well adjustable and lots of inputs.
The X52 Pro is a solid entry stick and will get you a long way. In my part of the world it is 150 Euro on Amazon right now, which makes it a kind of no brainer for a first HOTAS. Other than that I would second the recommendation of the VKB Gladiator NXT + TWCS throttle combination, but the premium EVO version is 220 Euro for just the stick. You still can get the older NXT version for a bit less, but they are selling of the remaining stock and it's out of production. Also, delivery takes a few weeks. Add to that the 80 Euro for the throttle and you're looking at twice the price for a X52, but with a much more quality stick.
If you go for a warthog be aware that it doesn't have a yaw axis.