General / Off-Topic How do I tell everyone around me that I'm sick of it?

[Deleted member 110222]

Everyday is just wake up. Eat. Turn on computer for a 12 hours. Fall asleep. Repeat.

But oh no everyone around me would rather I just stay in my room all day. Much easier than getting me out of the hole I was shoved into.

Why did I have to get bullied? Why did have to be agitated so much that it literally drove me insane? Seriously, why couldn't they beat up someone else for a change?

Well, here I am. Alone, a prisoner in my own home.

Bloody hate it. I hate the way I've been pushed to the bottom of the barrel.

Really don't know how I'm getting out.

My one wish is to be normal. I don't want to be better than other people. I want to be equal to any other working class bloke. That's it.

/rant

 

[Winterwalker]

"It's not about how hard you can hit. It's about how hard you can be hit .. and keep moving forward."
- Rocky Balboa, two time heavyweight champion of the world.

Over the past couple of months you've made significant progress with your weight and your bike? You've been hit hard yet still move forward. That's nothing less than a win against the odds Cmdr.




ps. There's a time and a place but that other thread? Not one of those. Play the ball not the man? o7 [up]

 

[Deleted member 115407]

What happened to riding, hoser?

 

[Morbad]

Rise up now!

Never surrender!

My one wish is to be normal.

Mediocrity is not something to strive for, IMO.

 

[Patrick_68000]

Set a goal. For you right now, it's the diet.

Each day which passes and each gram lost is a victory.

Enjoy each day the progress.

And one day when you've won this fight definitively, you'll move on to another fight.

The fight against oneself (not against the others) keeps you alive and allows you to progress.

 

[lysan]

Everyday is just wake up. Eat. Turn on computer for a 12 hours. Fall asleep. Repeat.

But oh no everyone around me would rather I just stay in my room all day. Much easier than getting me out of the hole I was shoved into.

Why did I have to get bullied? Why did have to be agitated so much that it literally drove me insane? Seriously, why couldn't they beat up someone else for a change?

Well, here I am. Alone, a prisoner in my own home.

Bloody hate it. I hate the way I've been pushed to the bottom of the barrel.

Really don't know how I'm getting out.

My one wish is to be normal. I don't want to be better than other people. I want to be equal to any other working class bloke. That's it.

/rant

get out, walk around, get a hobby outside. I like to hike alone, well my dogs are with me, just get out and interact with the world, or join a club.
However staying in the room and feel sorry for yourself is not the solution.

 

[dayrth]

...I don't want to be better than other people. I want to be equal to any other working class bloke. That's it....

You are, and anyone who tries to tell you differently is only trying to compensate for their own perceived inadequacies.

Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. Everyone has issues. Doesn't make them better or worse than anyone else.

 

[Patrick_68000]

get out, walk around, get a hobby outside. I like to hike alone, well my dogs are with me, just get out and interact with the world, or join a club.
However staying in the room and feel sorry for yourself is not the solution.

Yes of course ! For my part, I appreciate completely to be at my home in my room when I went out outside during several hours and preferably in the nature

 

[Deleted member 110222]

Thanks guys. I'm going through a very rough patch again.

My lack of knowledge of the "real world" is rearing its ugly head.

 

[Deleted member 110222]

get out, walk around, get a hobby outside. I like to hike alone, well my dogs are with me, just get out and interact with the world, or join a club.
However staying in the room and feel sorry for yourself is not the solution.

The problem is every time I leave my room, I get attacked.

I've not been able to find anywhere that just treats me with indifference. It's just hate wherever I go.

 

[ZeroAi]

Everyday is just wake up. Eat. Turn on computer for a 12 hours. Fall asleep. Repeat.

But oh no everyone around me would rather I just stay in my room all day. Much easier than getting me out of the hole I was shoved into.

Why did I have to get bullied? Why did have to be agitated so much that it literally drove me insane? Seriously, why couldn't they beat up someone else for a change?

Well, here I am. Alone, a prisoner in my own home.

Bloody hate it. I hate the way I've been pushed to the bottom of the barrel.

Really don't know how I'm getting out.

My one wish is to be normal. I don't want to be better than other people. I want to be equal to any other working class bloke. That's it.

/rant

I definitely understand the need to vent sometimes. Sometimes we just need to get this stuff off our chest.

That said, you've been posting very similar things for many months, which indicates you've been unhappy with your situation for awhile.

Those who study these things will tell you people complain to avoid taking the steps needed to resolve the issues they are complaining about.

They look at the problem, find it too hard or bothersome to fix, so resort to complaining.

That said, my advice to you is the same it was two years ago: Stop all complaining and blaming (even when justified) and start taking steps to change your situation.

And like I recommended a couple of years back, put down your games for a few hours and pickup a book like "No Excuses" by Brian Tracey, or "The Success Principles" by Jack Canfield, and start to change in your life for the better today.

Both books are full of stories of people who were worse off than you, but still managed to leave "someday isle" (aka, someday I'll get in shape, get a great job, etc, etc, etc) by leaving complaining and blame behind and becoming Response-Able.

Truly beats hoping the rest of the world changes so you can be happy (spoiler - it's not going to happen)

 

[Sir.Tj]

To be brutally honest mate and I say this in a genuinely caring manner.

Stop acting the victim, pull your finger out of your backside and do something about it.

You've had some amazing advice here on the forum in your threads and it's time to start acting on them.

Don't be afraid to fail, just pick yourself up and try again.

Nobody and I mean nobody can do something about it apart from yourself.

I mean it Uni, stop being the victim and acting like the victim, realise you're just as important and valued as everyone else on the planet.

(You can tell I'm a Dad to teenagers)

 

[Deleted member 110222]

To be brutally honest mate and I say this in a genuinely caring manner.

Stop acting the victim, pull your finger out of your backside and do something about it.

You've had some amazing advice here on the forum in your threads and it's time to start acting on them.

Don't be afraid to fail, just pick yourself up and try again.

Nobody and I mean nobody can do something about it apart from yourself.

I mean it Uni, stop being the victim and acting like the victim, realise you're just as important and valued as everyone else on the planet.

(You can tell I'm a Dad to teenagers)

I know. I know it's just, every time I've tried I've quite literally been punched in the face.

 

[Codger]

I tend to stay in my home, in my computer room, most of the time also, just because I prefer my own company. Must be my age. I've seen what's out there and it's much to "people-y" for me

Sorry, I have no real advice for you, Uni. I'm just here for humorous moral support, I guess.

 

[DD_Crash]

Are you being physically assaulted? That is illegal.

 

[EUS]

An adult being physically assaulted on any type of regular basis requires a like response.
Hypothetically, carrying a baseball bat strictly for batting practice might help.

 

[Deleted member 110222]

Are you being physically assaulted? That is illegal.

I know it is, and the last time it happened I absolutely contacted the authorities. But it basically happens every time I've tried going out. I don't know what it is, but something about me makes people just turn aggressive.

I don't know what I'm doing wrong but a guy can only take so many attacks before he gives up.

And considering I was been attacked daily by my mum's ex'... I don't know why people are so surprised that I can't trust anyone.

 

[Deleted member 110222]

I definitely understand the need to vent sometimes. Sometimes we just need to get this stuff off our chest.

That said, you've been posting very similar things for many months, which indicates you've been unhappy with your situation for awhile.

Those who study these things will tell you people complain to avoid taking the steps needed to resolve the issues they are complaining about.

They look at the problem, find it too hard or bothersome to fix, so resort to complaining.

That said, my advice to you is the same it was two years ago: Stop all complaining and blaming (even when justified) and start taking steps to change your situation.

And like I recommended a couple of years back, put down your games for a few hours and pickup a book like "No Excuses" by Brian Tracey, or "The Success Principles" by Jack Canfield, and start to change in your life for the better today.

Both books are full of stories of people who were worse off than you, but still managed to leave "someday isle" (aka, someday I'll get in shape, get a great job, etc, etc, etc) by leaving complaining and blame behind and becoming Response-Able.

Truly beats hoping the rest of the world changes so you can be happy (spoiler - it's not going to happen)

All I'm asking is to not get attacked. To be treated with indifference. That's it. If that can't happen then I'm sorry, but there's nothing I can do, because how the hell am I supposed to get anywhere if there's someone waiting with a right hook around every corner?

 

[-VR- Max Factor]

Everyday is just wake up. Eat. Turn on computer for a 12 hours. Fall asleep. Repeat.

But oh no everyone around me would rather I just stay in my room all day. Much easier than getting me out of the hole I was shoved into.

Why did I have to get bullied? Why did have to be agitated so much that it literally drove me insane? Seriously, why couldn't they beat up someone else for a change?

Well, here I am. Alone, a prisoner in my own home.

Bloody hate it. I hate the way I've been pushed to the bottom of the barrel.

Really don't know how I'm getting out.

My one wish is to be normal. I don't want to be better than other people. I want to be equal to any other working class bloke. That's it.

/rant

I was bullied at school and have suffered from depression too so know how it feels. If the weather is good, try to get out, just getting some sunshine can make all the difference with how you feel.
Ignore anyone and everyone else until you start to feel a bit better. Also know that there are people around that can help.

 

[Deleted member 110222]

I was bullied at school and have suffered from depression too so know how it feels. If the weather is good, try to get out, just getting some sunshine can make all the difference with how you feel.
Ignore anyone and everyone else until you start to feel a bit better. Also know that there are people around that can help.

I am talking to some people. Totally anonymous channels mind. But I'm 24 years old for crying out loud, and I still have no choice but to live like I'm a six year old.

I am missing out on a lot, and I'm actively pushed out of normal life.

I'm bloody sick of it. I want nothing more than to put the video games down, go outside, and live.

But how the hell am I supposed to do that when every random person views me in disdain? I promise you that's not an exaggeration.