Would you not call a pirate off the coast of Somalia a bully? You missed the point of my post. People who kill other people for profit or fun are bullies. It's perspective. Do you really expect that the commanders being popped in their defenseless barges should enjoying being popped? This is space, people kill other people. In OPs case he was stopped and popped. That counts as bullying

I dont understand why you're bringing rules into it?
i bring the rules into it as those are what defines the type of game
so given all the PvP games out there, do you think any form of PvP is bullying? in world of tanks, are all the players bullies? in call of duty, are all the players bullies?
in all those PvP games the players kill each other mostly for fun, seldom for profit. it's very much like a form of competitive sport. that doesn't mean things will always be an even match though. in most PvP games there is often one side who are much more skilled or have some other advantage.
at one point i was the smallest boy in the entire school. we also had to play rugby. when i was tackled was that me being bullied? every single boy on that pitch was bigger and stronger than me. so were they bullying me when they tackled me during a game? or were they playing by the rules and i was fair game?
the rules in elite are harsh, it doesn't matter if your opponent can gain financially from it, or gain in ranking, you are an open target and the punishment for attacking you is trivial. when i undock i expect there to be bigger and better players out there and one day i'll get interdicted and killed. that day is probably getting closer as my savings towards a type 6 near their completion. right now my viper and cobra are idea for escaping in, a type 6, yeah, that's going to get me killed at some point. but that's the game, if i did not want to {edit} run the risk of being {/edit} killed then i'd stay away from open. i don't want to die, but fighting for your life is a lot more fun than grinding NPC's
i am also very aware that many players chose open for a coop and social experience, and it quite frankly sucks that the game does not properly cater for them (group play and the often touted mobius group feels more like a work around to me)
so yes, the pirates from somalia are bullies and worse. but in elite the rules say you can shoot at each other, and in that context shooting at a player does not make someone a bully.
so are you saying that all PvPers from all PvP games are bullies? because this game has rules that define it as a PvP game to me. there might be no honour in killing a trading ship with a combat ship, but there is no honour in tackling the smallest boy in the school either. though just to be clear i was not in any way troubled by rugby, i actually preferred it to football and that was all over half a lifetime ago.
when we click on open we agree to fly in the same space the PvPers are flying in, and we know the rules support their gameplay more than they support coop.