Don't forget these forums are massively unrepresentative. Remember when FD acknowledged by far most people play in Open?
When you read Reddit or other more general communities that wouldn't surprise you. Most people there are <35 year olds with plenty experience with modern online gaming. The prevailing opinion is that ED is very easy, both in general and when avoiding gankers. Changing modes at will? Influence the bgs from solo? Hi-wake in ten seconds? Uninterrupted menu logging? From a modern gaming perspective these are comically inane design decisions that make ED pretty much a non-stop safe space.
On these forums here it is a different story. The average age is higher, experience and interest in multiplay is lower and the sense of entitlement ("I should be able to space truck without shields and insurance whenever and wherever I like with impunity! Others should explain themselves and I should decide if their motives are valid!" etc) is through the roof.
Being in other communities helps to understand FD a lot better. The community here is very much skewed towards a PG/solo/no PvP/no challenge/LetMeFeelLikeTheOldDays vibe. But they only represent a small group of players, and most do play in Open, do take some basic precautions and don't always blame others for their failings.